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Sheila (of Ephemera)'s avatar

First, I think you should not declutter the cat. 🤣

I have a Future Goal of having a mostly all-year wardrobe, but my commitment to myself is a long-term one, to do this over the next 3 years (I plan to retire in 3 years). So no pressure NOW.

I do my closet swap-over during a 3-4 day stretch that encompasses everything, from the accessories and jewelry to the clothes and coats. I found the “3 words” to be a very helpful tool, and have been letting go of things that don’t give me all of (or at least 2 of 3) them: badass, artsy and joyful.

Your wardrobe looks like it has a good balance! Brava, Gillian!💕

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RLC's avatar

Love that term "peacock clothes" - it totally captures the feeling of a piece of clothing that isn't really "me" but can't bring myself to get rid of because it achieves (or achieved) a specific response when worn! Now I want to go consider my wardrobe with that thought: figuring out what's "my" style and what is "peacock".

Not to say that "peacock clothes" are inherently a bad thing - sometimes I know I want to make a specific impression with my outfit and having something I feel confident will help me in that context is good. But it does go a long way in possibly explaining why a few pieces I rarely wear and have no deep emotional connection to have survived multiple declutters.

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