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Lin's avatar

I love anything organisation related! I don't do a switchover myself but I always feel like it's useful to spend some time with one's clothes, because there's always something I'ver overlooked or haven't thought much about and it usually tells me something about what's bothering me.

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Sheila (of Ephemera)'s avatar

First, I think you should not declutter the cat. 🤣

I have a Future Goal of having a mostly all-year wardrobe, but my commitment to myself is a long-term one, to do this over the next 3 years (I plan to retire in 3 years). So no pressure NOW.

I do my closet swap-over during a 3-4 day stretch that encompasses everything, from the accessories and jewelry to the clothes and coats. I found the “3 words” to be a very helpful tool, and have been letting go of things that don’t give me all of (or at least 2 of 3) them: badass, artsy and joyful.

Your wardrobe looks like it has a good balance! Brava, Gillian!💕

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Gillian's avatar

😹😹😹 never, but if I did, I'd send her your way!

I love your 3 words, Sheila - they're very fitting for you! And I love that you have a similar goal and that you have a game plan - yay for retirement in 3 years! Looking forward to reading about your next switchover.

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Sheila (of Ephemera)'s avatar

She’s so sweet.💕

I’ve been feeling like I have more than I need for a while…this will be a good swap, I think. I’m gonna try another video (only less shitty.😁

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RLC's avatar

Love that term "peacock clothes" - it totally captures the feeling of a piece of clothing that isn't really "me" but can't bring myself to get rid of because it achieves (or achieved) a specific response when worn! Now I want to go consider my wardrobe with that thought: figuring out what's "my" style and what is "peacock".

Not to say that "peacock clothes" are inherently a bad thing - sometimes I know I want to make a specific impression with my outfit and having something I feel confident will help me in that context is good. But it does go a long way in possibly explaining why a few pieces I rarely wear and have no deep emotional connection to have survived multiple declutters.

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Gillian's avatar

Yes! Thanks for this comment - it's so relatable. I have quite a few of those items that I hold onto, not because I actually wear them, but because when I did (probably only a few times ever), I received compliments on them and if I let them go, I'm letting go of the chance of getting those compliments again but that's a sad reason to hold onto something, I think. I'll also have another look at. my items with this in mind. I'd love to hear if you let any of your peacock items go.

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Julia Marina's avatar

My husband and I just bought some shelving for our walk-in closet to help make our clothing more visible year-round. I’m looking forward to assembling the shelves and taking my seasonal items out of storage to organize and make visible! I enjoy reading your reflections Gillian. Happy Sunday ☺️

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Gillian's avatar

Thanks Julia! That sounds like a very fun project. I have an Ikea pax wardrobe and have been considering getting a few more drawers/shelves to better utilize the space, and this was the reminder that I needed.

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Julia Marina's avatar

I feel like the organization really makes a big difference on what gets worn! I’m inspired to do a de-clutter simultaneously as well now, too.

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